Episode #270 – Liz Wendling

Liz Wendling’s “Verbal 2×4” Social Selling Strategy

Liz Wendling


Liz Wendling

Liz Wendling is a nationally recognized speaker, sales consultant, and author of 6 books. Her two most recent are “The Heart of Authentic Selling” and “Sell Without Selling Your Soul.” Liz is driven by the mantra, “It’s not WHAT you sell, it’s HOW you sell that matters.” Liz understands the sales challenges that professionals face when selling in today’s competitive environment and shows them how to make a profound difference in their sales approach, language, and process—online and offline.

Digital sales are about leveraging yourself, your service, your products, and the available digital platforms to build relationships. Social selling is where you get to socialize, connect, and have conversations. Liz Wendling emphasizes that social channels are connected to real people in the real world having real conversations. You have to humanize the connection so they feel you’re there to help. One of the ways Liz connects with potential clients is through her “Verbal 2×4.” Listen to this episode of Sales Reinvented to learn more about her social selling strategy!

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Outline of This Episode

  • [1:21] The difference between digital and social selling
  • [2:27] How to improve your social selling skills
  • [3:36] How to use Liz’s “verbal 2×4”
  • [4:48] The characteristics of a great digital seller
  • [5:55] Stop apologizing and stop being self-serving
  • [7:41] Top three digital selling dos and don’ts
  • [10:11] Liz’s verbal 2X4 put into practice

How to improve your social selling skills

Liz sees room for improvement in both empathy and understanding as well as flexibility and advocacy. Selling isn’t about pushing your products but listening to your potential customers to understand what they need. Only then can you solve their problems. You also have to be flexible with the changing marketplace. Potential clients want to work hand-in-hand with someone who wants to help and believes they can do so.

Liz’s strategy is perfect because it works for her. She makes sure her message hits someone with a “verbal 2×4.” She wants to get their attention to move them toward a conversation. What can you do to get someone’s attention? What can you do that lands with an impact?

The characteristics of a great social seller

Authenticity, flexibility, and dedication are necessary attributes for any seller. Liz emphasizes you must be flexible in your process, authentic in your approach, and dedicated to follow-up and follow-through. You have to be able to have conversations (and resurrect the dead ones). Many people give up on themselves far too early in the process and blame it on the customer because “they don’t know what they want.” Be flexible and shift the message or conversation to re-engage potential clients.

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Stop apologizing, stop being self-serving, and start serving

Liz implores salespeople to stop apologizing and being self-serving with messages. What does that mean? Liz gets far too many messages saying, “I’m so sorry to bother you…” or “I know you’re busy, so I’ll be brief.” It not only puts the salesperson in the less-than position but does nothing to build confidence in the person you’re reaching out to. Get rid of apology language.

Secondly, don’t make it all about you. Make it all about your customer. Don’t say things like, “I’d love to get on your calendar” or “I’d love 30 minutes of your time.” You’re telling someone what YOU want instead of inviting them into a conversation that they want to be a part of.

What are Liz’s top three digital selling dos and don’ts? Listen to learn more!

Liz’s verbal 2X4 put into practice

Liz teaches her clients to prospect on LinkedIn with a “verbal 2×4.” Liz focuses on the pain, problem, challenge, issue, or dilemma that her target market is muddling through. One area she focuses on with her consulting practice is family law attorneys. They’re spending a fortune to get leads. But they often fall short in sales conversations and conversions—so they’re losing a lot of money.

Liz’s message hits home: “Many of the firms I work with are struggling with this, they’re spending a fortune on that, but here’s what the end result is.” Then she’ll ask for a conversation. They often respond with, “Are you a fly on the wall? How do you know this?”

They think their attorneys are bad at closing, not fully realizing that they’re actually bad at opening. Instead of her pushing for a conversation, they’re the ones asking to get on her calendar. The outcome is always a great conversation. If you have a message that lessens the noise, you can have real honest conversations from an authentic place.

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More About Liz Wendling

What do you most admire in the sphere of Digital or Social Selling and why? Brynne Tillman and Bill McCormick  – Social Selling Link

Are there any aspects of your own Digital or Social Selling skills that you are working on improving at the moment? Refining my process and redefining my approach.

Hobbies, Interests? Hiking and biking and anything outside in the Colorado Mountain air.

How can our listeners contact with you? www.lizwendling.com, by phone at 303-929-3886, or on LinkedIn